Monday, September 14, 2009
Need an introduction for an efficient wife?
What you will find... pathetic titles posed as questions... lots of stories and pictures about my little girl, Kate (sorry, I can't help it) recipes and other random things like this post.
Maybe that does make me an efficient wife... I can cram all that stuff into this little blog. My new goal along with being an excellent wife (Prov. 31), I am adding an efficient wife. Now that I think about it.. the Proverbs 31 wife was efficient... I have a lot to work on!
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Why does life get so hectic?

Beth talked from Psalm 37 - "Coming Home to Heart of Your Desires". (I feel a little weird calling her Beth.. I am talking as if I know her personally, which I don't.. but I didn't want to say Beth Moore or Mrs. Moore, so I settled for "Beth".) Anyway, I had heard that passage preached several times, but she did bring a freshness to it for me. For those of you who missed it... the message will be available on her website in the next few weeks at Living Proof.
After a hectic week last week and knowing that life wasn't slowing down with Justin's schedule, I decided to re-focus and read through Romans and read the book, Desiring God: Meditations of a Christian Hedonist by John Piper. I wanted to share an excerpt that he wrote.. I love how God works. This totally goes along with what Beth was talking about this weekend (the desires of our hearts) He wrote a poem to his wife on their 25th wedding anniversary on what it is to be a Christian Hedonist. The poem is really long, so I won't post it all (click here to read it in its entirety), but I loved this excerpt...
Call this whatever name you may, It is the truth.
Shall God display His great all-satisfying grace
In joyless souls? And shall he trace
The outlines of his majesty
In hearts that neither taste nor see
Enough in him to comprehend
That here their quest is at an end?
No, God has made another way
To put his glory on display.
His goodness shines with brightest rays
When we delight in all his ways.
His glory overflows its rim
When we are satisfied in him.
His radiance will fill the earth
When people revel in his worth.
The beauty of God's holy fire
Burns brightest in the heart's desire.
Don't you just love that? Oh, how I want to "Delight my ways in the Lord".. and "He will give me the desires of my heart." (Psalm 37:4) I have a long way to go.. I want my desires to match up with God's desires.
I have no idea why life gets so hectic at times, but remember to stop and think about your purpose on this earth and why God put you here.. one more time...
His goodness shines with brightest rays
When we delight in all his ways.
His glory overflows its rim
When we are satisfied in him.
His radiance will fill the earth
When people revel in his worth.
The beauty of God's holy fire
Burns brightest in the heart's desire.
Friday, August 14, 2009
Can I get a roo, roo, roo? Randomness & Freebie Friday
Monday, June 15, 2009
Why haven't you updated your blog?



Now back to cleaning and getting ready for VBS tonight. I hope you have a wonderful Monday!
Friday, June 5, 2009
Want a free Doughnut? Freebie Friday


Why is National Donut Day celebrated on the first Friday in June? In 1917, Salvation Army female volunteers known as “lassies” prepared thousands of fresh donuts to the homesick soldiers that served in France during World War I. National Donut Day was officially established in 1938 by the Chicago Salvation Army to raise much-needed funds during the Great Depression.
-In the U.S. alone, more than 10 billion donuts are made every year.

-The largest donut ever made was an American-style jelly donut weighing 1.7 tons, which was 16 feet in diameter and 16 inches high in the center.
-Per capita, Canada has more donut shops than any other country.
-The hole in the donut's center appeared in the first half of the 19th Century.
-Adolph Levitt invented the first donut machine in 1920.
Thursday, June 4, 2009
Do you want to see the "after"? "Need" new Flip Flops?

BEFORE
AFTER
AFTER
Monday, June 1, 2009
Do you love makeovers?
Here some pics of Toby's before and after.
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Do you accept my apology?
These past few days have not gone as planned, I was sick on Thursday and Friday and did not post my Freebie Friday giveaway as planned. Next Friday my giveaway will be back on as planned. (I know I have said "planned" too much, but is late and I am tired). Also, the winners of Monday's giveaway will be both entries (since there were only two). I'll contact you to get your address and send you each a book. Congratulations!
I'll give you a weekend update on Monday. Until then, have a great Sunday and Memorial Day.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
What in the world was I thinking?

Kate was watching the other girls climb up it and of course wanted to climb up also. There was a little step you had to climb up in order to get inside. She could not quite get her leg up on it.. so I thought... I'll help put her up there. She will only crawl around at the opening... BAD IDEA. There goes my baby crawling up the steps, right up to the top of this structure, like she was a champ. What do I do? Of course, I had to climb up after her. I didn't want her to get stuck, or come tumbling down the slide.
So there I go... feeling like this:
(Please note this is NOT me.. just a wonderful picture of how I was feeling climbing up that thing). Oh, did I mention that the there were two moms watching me whole time and one of them was our neighbor.. yes.
At the top of the structure there was this little steering wheel. When I reached the top, of course Kate went right to the wheel. Did I mention that the other little girl was playing with the wheel? Well, that little girl was not about to share that wheel with Kate. And Kate was not about to let that little girl not share. I kid you not, my baby went right up to the little girl and tried to push her hand over so she could also steer. Oh, she was also staring the girl down.. I could only imagine what she was thinking.. you better let go or else. {BTW.. during all this, I was getting very hot and claustrophobic.. I placed my face right up to the opening to make sure I was getting air.} So, I tried to talk the little girl into letting Kate steer just once, but she really did not want to share with Kate. I will have to say.. I was pretty proud of Kate for not backing down, but I knew it was TIME TO GO.
So the next question.. How do I get down? Kate did not want to leave, but I grabbed her and headed down the slide. Yes, the two mothers were at the bottom to greet us.
No, I will NEVER do that again. Seriously, WHAT IN THE WORLD WAS I THINKING?
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Speaking Five Languages & Mandarin Chinese by Age Five... Seriously?
Since I had it in my mind to take her somewhere one morning a week, I decided to look into what other toddler programs were available in our area. A new preschool called The Goddard School has just been built and it is right across the street from our neighborhood. I read a flyer they mailed us and I decided to stop by the other day.
The Education Director gave me a tour and proceeded to tell me that all their curriculum is written by a professor at Yale, all their teachers have four year degrees and they focus on language development along with social skills, yoga, etc. Kate's teacher would teach her sign language. (We have already taught her some signs, so I thought... yes, we are such great parents, she will already be advanced in her class.) Then the director proceeded to tell me that at age two they starting teaching them Spanish. At age three they add in French, at age four they add German and Italian and by age five she will be speaking those five languages along with Mandarin Chinese.
To be honest, I chuckled to myself a little when she told me how much Kate would love her yoga class, but then when she told me she would be speaking all those languages including Mandarin Chinese.. by age five. I was like.. are you serious?
Well, needless to say, I really want to send her to that school now... especially after I had to google "Mandarin Chinese" to find out how to spell it.
Of course, as always, reality sets in... two half days cost almost as much as my friend pays to send her kids to private school. Sorry Kate, you will be stuck with me for a while, but maybe Handy Manny will teach you a little Spanish. (Yes, I know it is not Mandarin Chinese.. but come on!)
Monday, May 11, 2009
What if I wiggle my nose and wave my wand?
Since Lea always says that cleanliness is next to godliness. I do strive to have a clean house.
After all our house guests left and Kate's party was over, I crashed and burned. I am so embarrassed to say that I just finished taking down her party decorations today. I have the laundry done, but it is piled up. {for some reason I hate putting it away}
I keep asking Justin.. if I wiggle my nose and wave Kate's wand, do you think I will wake up and the house will be spotless? {If only it worked like that}

Dear Fly Lady, I am so sorry. I have left your ways, but don't worry, I am coming back to them.
Can you wave your wand and make my house spotless (just this once)?
Hey, it may work... she is the "cleaning fairy".
PS... You have to read this story.. Can you imagine receiving this Mother's Day gift from your three SINGLE daughters? Read Meghan's Story..
Thursday, May 7, 2009
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Thursday, April 9, 2009
"Minivan Moms" Do You Need a Pep Talk? American Idol Fans- Do you need a Good Laugh?
My friend Meghan sent me this video when she found out I got a minivan... A very much needed "Pep Talk" ... it seriously made me smile.
{Don't forget to come back tomorrow for Freebie Friday... giveaway of a monogrammed car mat set valued at $75.} (Also, if you are an American Idol fan, you have to scroll down to the end of this post and read the Facebook postings that people left in response to my friend's comment... it is not at all politically correct, but very funny).
My friend Jamey is such a nice guy, great personality, cute and has one arm. He is so funny!
He posted this status update on Facebook Tuesday night after American Idol. My husband and I were laughing out loud when we read them. I guess he is happy about the outcome. Here is his comment and some of the funniest responses:
Jamey: I'm gonna go ahead and be the one to say that Scott has to go, he is only there because he is blind, sorry but I am allowed to say that because I have 1 arm, so it's OK. BUT HE HAS TO GO!!!
Carly: Jamey, I miss you and your one arm humor!!!!
Liliana: LOL...omg, u r so messed up...but so right...i've been saying that from the beginning...he really needs to go...he's a nice guy, but he's definitely not idol-material! lol...still laughing...haha
Nicole: I totally agree!!
Kristin: Me and both of my arms totally agree!!
Mike (who is paralyzed): um hm. gimp humor. oops, did i say gimp?
Amanda: Yeah he won't even see it coming...woops. too far? I can say that b/c I have Scoliosis.
Monday, April 6, 2009
Does everything in life come in Threes? The Good, Sad and Funny.

The Funny:
My husband is a youth pastor at a church in NC and the music pastor asked him to play Pilate in the Easter musical.. and of course, Justin is so nice and can't say no. So he came home the other night in this outfit... it is funny and a little sexy.. well, no.. just funny!

Freebie Friday update:
Come back this Friday... we will be giving away a set of monogrammed car mats valued at $75.
Here is the winner of our first Freebie Friday... we had 20 entries... here are the results:
Random Sequence Generator
Here is your sequence:
7
Timestamp: 2009-04-06 14:19:09 UTC
Saturday, April 4, 2009
Are you a day dreamer?
I day dream all the time. I dream of how I want my family to be when they are grown, the wife and mother I want to become (because it is a huge process for me.. and I have ways to go), places I want to go, things I want to do, business I can start, things I can invent...
YES, my husband frequently looks at me like I am CRAZY when I share some of my ideas with him. He always responds lovingly and tells me to go for it!! Some are crazy and would never happen, but we do dream together of the places we want to visit. There are so many on my list, but one place is the Atlantis in the Bahamas. My aunt, uncle and cousins are going.. and said that we should come too. We can't afford it right now... even if we crash in their room.. which would be way too full! We do hope to go there one day. Here are some pictures... it is beautiful!
Where do you dream of going?



Thursday, January 29, 2009
Do you want something random?
25 Random Things about me.. in no particular order.
1. I always wanted all boys (4), but I am so glad the Lord gave me a little girl.
2. I can't believe my husband choose me.. I so don't deserve him!
3. I spend way too much time on Facebook. (obviously)
4. Ever since I was little, I always wanted to serve in ministry... I am so glad I am able to help my husband.. I love it!!
5. My uncle works for Louis Vuitton.. he is amazingly talented and over the creative and merchandising team (I think that is what he does.. sorry Bill if I got that wrong). Anyway, he (and my mom) hooked me up with a purse for my 30th birthday. It is the only purse I carry. Since I am a pastor's wife, people constantly ask if it is real.
6. I, like Ann Marie, love Broadway theater. I have no musical talent what so ever, but I always wished I could sing. The shows I have seen live (in NYC) are: Rent, The Producers (w/ Matthew Broderick and Nathan Lane), Cabaret, Les Miserables, The Odd Couple (with Matthew B., Nathan L. and Brad Garret). In Raleigh I have seen, Cabaret, The Lion King, Mama Mia, Greece. My favorites are The Lion King and Mama Mia.. although I loved them all. btw... the movies don't do them justice.. just not the same.
7. The Broadway show I am dying to see is In the Heights.. If we have some extra money, I am hoping to go to NYC this spring or summer to visit my uncles and see the show.
8. I can be "High Maintenance" - but I really wish I wasn't.
9. My favorite color to wear is BLACK. It so takes 5 pounds off my figure. I wish I could find a color that would take about 20 pounds off.
10. I have some of the most amazing friends from -- when I was born (Kelly), when I was little (Somer and Heather), High School (Tina, Colleen, Julie) and College (Elizabeth, Jessica, Meghan,Ashley, Laine). I keep in touch with them (not very well). I miss them all so much!
11. Kelly and I used to dress up my cousin (Brad) in our dresses. I so wish we had pictures of it.
12. I love expensive, designer clothes.. and wish I didn't. I have a serious weakness for designer jeans. I think I got this from my mom... who still blesses me with designer clothes and shoes.
13. The most influential person in my life was my grandma (Eileen). She passed away last year and I miss her so much.
14. I hope my kids are as close as my dad is with his brothers and sister.
15. I am a dreamer. I have all these ideas in my head. Sometimes my husband thinks I am crazy, but I was studying the Proverbs 31 woman and she was an entrepreneur. Now I can tell him that I have one of her traits. (I need to work on alot of her other traits).
16. I graduated from Florida State University and love the SEMINOLES!!
17. I grew up in a family of HUGE sports fans. My grandpa, dad and uncles have had season tickets to the Buccaneer games since they started. They are die hard and made it through some rough seasons.
18. My favorite piece of clothing Kate has is her Uggs. My sister-in-law bought them for her and they are so cute!
19. The only famous people I kind of knew were they Boleas.. aka..Hogans. I worked for Linda (Hulk Hogan's now ex wife). I also babysat a couple times for them. Yes.. for Brooke and Nick.. it was a long time ago (in college). No, I have not kept in touch with them. She fired two of my friends, but she was really good to me.
20. Three women I want to be more like (all for different reasons and they are each from different seasons in my life). Angie Hunt, Lea Marshall and my sister-in-law (Beth).
21. I have a little malti-poo named Toby. I love him, but my husband does not.
22. I have a Master's degree - this will be shocking to some of my friends.
23. I am memorizing the book of Philippians.. inspired by my husband.
24. I wish the kids in our youth group really loved each other and treated everyone kindly.
25. I have become "that parent", who thinks her daughter is the cutest kid ever to live on this earth.
Monday, January 12, 2009
Do you want to know what I got for Christmas?
This Christmas Justin went with a theme. Was it a jewelry theme? Was it a pampering theme? No, it was an "As Seen on TV" theme this Christmas. The first gift I opened was a Ped-Egg. (I did want this). The second gift was "As seen on TV" miracle foot cream. (At this point, I was really getting the hint from Justin... that my feet need work.) The third gift I opened was Aqua Globes. I was like, seriously, Aqua Globes. Who buys those? That

I will say that the "As Seen on TV" gifts are not the worst gifts I have ever been given. My boyfriend in High School wrote me a check.
Boys take note.. unless the check is for a $1,000 so she can go on a shopping spree, at least get her a gift card.

Justin also got a funny gift this Christmas. His mom got him these praying hands book ends. They are kind of creepy.
I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas! We really had great one and loved our first Christmas with our little girl.
If you want to post a comment, let me know what you got (unless it is nothing). I was telling a friend of mine about the Aqua Globes and I made the mistake of asking her what her husband got her. She told me that he got her nothing. He really got her nothing. I felt so bad... my Aqua Globe gift looked pretty good at that moment.
What was the worst gift you ever got?